Everybody always dream about one's other half who would be perfect. You know exactly how your future wife or husband will look like and what kind of character he or she would have. But the older you are the less ideal partner you are looking for. Simply, the ideals don't exist.
My ideal partner would be a good looking man. Unfortunately I cannot agree with those people who say that the appearance is not important and that only soul and feelings count. I think that if you want to be a good mariage or couple you should like each other not only emotionaly but also phisically. So, my husband should be handsome and attractive. I wish he had black hair and brown eyes. I don't like fair - haired man. I wish he was tall and well - built. I don't want a very thin man because I wouldn't feel safe with him. Of course my ideal partner would love riding on a horse back.
The other very important thing besides appearance is character. First of all, my future husband should be loving. I wish he was warm, tender, gentle and attentive. I wish he was brave so I would be sure that he will protect me against all bad things that could happened to me. I wish he could remember about some small things in usual life like flowers or compliments. He has to be patient and composed. I hope I will have children one day so I am looking for a good father, too. He must love children and cannot be afraid of them. I wish he was not only handsome but also inteligent. He has to be resolute and he cannot be afraid of stating his own point of view. I wish he was also my best friend. He must be trustworthy. And one more thing, he must be hard - working but not a workaholic.
This is my ideal husband. But I know that like in everything what we do we must to work out a compromise. We cannot find a perfect partner because there are no prfect people. I think that the ideal partnership is when we find somebody with whom we can overcome our faults. It is easy to be with someone when you love each other but for me the real love is when you are facing different problems together.
